Omo, see ehn, dis woman dey face serious wahala from her teenage son wey don turn detective for her life!
Di gist be say, dis mama wey be single parent get 13-year-old pikin wey name na Tony. Na him dey suspect say she dey get romantic affair with her friends, especially one woman wey live next door.
Wetin concern am be say, e no wan hear say mama dey chop love. As e don dey pop up questions wey concern her sex life, e don begin cut off him friendship with some of di kids wey dey live around dem.
Wetin fit cause dis kind strong attitude? Omo, e go shock you say di pikin don observe plenty bad behavior wey don happen for di past between him mama and him other mama – wey no too fine at all, talkless of di emotional abuse wey don dey happen.
Di woman sit down dey ask herself: “Wetin I go do now? I no fit tell am say e no be so o!” She dey manage to co-parent well with her ex, but na im dey vex say Tony no fit stand her being close to other people.
See, my people, e no easy to manage pikin wey dey feel like him na di guardian of your heart. Dis kind obsession wey Tony don develop fit brew wahala for di future. E fit make am lash out when him no even sabi wetin e dey do.
Advisers don talk say therapy go good for both mama and pikin, but Tony dey run from di idea like say na kolo. E need to know say love no dey mean control or jealousy. E get as e sure pass; na why na therapy go fit help am to unlearn di toxic behavior wey fit fit affect him. Na wetin di mama dey try get am to understand, but e no wan hear word.
She dey talk make e and him sister come join therapy, but dis pikin wey dey feel like e dey protect him mama go wan create boundary wey go help them grow.
As e dey like dis, dis woman fit still try balance di matter. E suppose gree say Tony dey angry but nah him time to shine. No be say make e no chop love, but e gatz learn respect and boundaries first.
Na serious matter, my people! If wahala no fit run, we fit get serious outcome. But therapy go help clear di air, make dem fit see say life no be only about controlling each other, but sowing love wey no dey choke.
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